Frequently Asked Questions

Have questions or need help? Read our FAQ or call us with our Professional team!

General Questions

What is domestic violence?

Domestic violence is a pattern of coercive, controlling behaviour that can include physical abuse, emotional or psychological abuse, sexual abuse or financial abuse (using money and financial tools to exert control).

Why do victims sometimes return to or stay with abusers?

Abusive partners work very hard to keep victims trapped in the relationship. They may try to isolate the victim from friends and family, thereby reducing the people and places where the survivor can go for support. Through various tactics of financial abuse, abusive partners create financial barriers to safety.
There is a real fear of death or more abuse if they leave, as abusers may perceive this act of independence as a threat to the power and control they’ve worked to gain, and they may choose to escalate the violence in response.

Is it possible for abusers to change?

Yes, but they must first make the choice to change their behaviour. It’s not easy for an abusive partner to stop choosing abusive behaviour, and it requires a serious commitment to change. Once an abuser has had all of the power in a relationship, it’s difficult to transition to a healthy relationship where each partner has equal respect and power.

Are men victims of domestic violence?

Yes, men can be victims of domestic abuse. Domestic violence is a pervasive, life-threatening crime that affects millions of individuals across the United States regardless of age, economic status, race, sexual orientation, gender identity, religion, ability, or education level.

Pervasive stereotypes that men are always the abuser and women are always the victim discriminates against survivors who are men and discourages them from coming forward with their stories. Survivors of domestic violence who are men are less likely to seek help or report abuse. Many are unaware of services for men, and there is a common misconception that domestic violence programs only serve women.

Do LGBTQ people experience domestic violence?

Yes, LGBTQ people can be victims of domestic abuse. Domestic violence is a pervasive, life-threatening crime that affects loads of individuals across the UK regardless of age, economic status, race, sexual orientation.

How does the economy affect domestic violence?

A bad economy does not cause domestic violence, but it can make it worse. The severity and frequency of abuse can increase when factors associated with a bad economy are present. Job loss, housing foreclosures, debt, and other factors contribute to higher stress levels at home, which can lead to increased violence.

Some Facts About It Violence In The UK

Domestic Violence

When we talk about domestic violence, we are not talking about men versus women or women versus men. We are talking about violence versus peace and control versus respect. Domestic violence affects us all, and all of us – women, children, and men – must be part of the solution.

The Abusers Facts

Abuse takes an emotional and physical toll over time, which can translate to additional health issues that make leaving more difficult.
Survivors often report that they want the abuse to end, not the relationship. A survivor may stay with or return to an abusive partner because they believe the abuser’s promises to change.

Statistics Domestic Abuse-Related
  • The number of police recorded domestic abuse-related crimes in England and Wales rose 6% in the year ending March 2021 to 845,734; this follows increases seen in previous years and may reflect improved recording by the police alongside increased reporting by victims.

  • The police made 33 arrests per 100 domestic abuse-related crimes in the year ending March 2021; the same as in the previous year (in the 38 police forces that supplied complete data in both years).

Have a Different Question?

Email us anytime

Or call — +44 07711 262 331

We Are Here For You That’s Our Mission

24/7 service. Same Day Appointments are Available.

(+44) 07711 262 331

info@wingsofsoul.org

London, England,

OUR PARTNERS

DutchEnglishFrenchGermanItalianPortugueseSpanish