FAQ

Domestic violence is a pattern of coercive and controlling behaviour. It can take the form of physical, emotional or psychological, sexual, or financial abuse — for example using money and financial tools to control someone.

Abusers often work hard to keep victims trapped — cutting them off from friends and family and creating financial barriers that make leaving harder.

Many victims also fear that leaving will lead to more violence, or even death, because the abuser may see independence as a threat to their control and escalate in response.

Yes — but only if they choose to. Stopping abusive behaviour takes real, sustained commitment, and moving from total control to a relationship of equal respect is difficult.

Yes. Domestic abuse affects people of every age, background, income, sexual orientation, gender identity, religion and ability.

The stereotype that men are always abusers and women always victims discourages male survivors from speaking up. Men are less likely to report abuse or seek help, and many don't know that support services — including ours — are open to them.

Yes. LGBTQ people can be victims of domestic abuse, and it affects many people across the UK regardless of age, income, race or sexual orientation. Our services are open to everyone.

A weak economy doesn't cause domestic violence, but it can make it worse. Job losses, debt, housing problems and other financial pressures raise stress at home, which can increase how often and how severely abuse happens.